Category: 2020s

  • Raised by Butch-Femme parents in small-town 1960s USA: Pam’s story

    Raised by Butch-Femme parents in small-town 1960s USA: Pam’s story

    Pam was 2-years-old when her mother found her life partner and co-parent: a Butch lesbian Pam affectionately refers to as ‘Pap’. Pam, who is gay herself and was named after her mother’s former lover, describes a happy, normal small-town childhood that was both attacked by straight society and embraced by some friends with kind hearts.…

  • Homosexual boundaries do not abuse bisexual and transgender people

    Homosexual boundaries do not abuse bisexual and transgender people

    The Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras is the biggest Pride event in Australia. Since 1978, when 53 gay and lesbian people were arrested for publicly celebrating homosexuality while it was illegal, the parade and surrounding festivities have attracted participants from around the world. As the name suggests, its focus is on gay and lesbian…

  • Stories That Made Lesbian Herstory in 2025

    Stories That Made Lesbian Herstory in 2025

    2025 is officially done and dusted. What made lesbian herstory? Sport: Entertainment: Puttin’ rings on it: Controversial news:

  • “Culturally Gay”: Are lesbians allowed to discuss popular culture?

    “Culturally Gay”: Are lesbians allowed to discuss popular culture?

    I was a teenager when weekly celebrity gossip magazines were calling women who weighed 60kg “obese.” How quickly (or slowly) a celebrity woman could lose her pregnancy weight made headlines. Kate Moss proudly declared that her motto was, “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels.” You couldn’t escape it. Celebrity culture and the magazines that…

  • Is Taylor Swift secretly a lesbian?

    Is Taylor Swift secretly a lesbian?

    I don’t particularly care for Taylor Swift. I don’t mean this in an edgy, “ugh, Swifties are so annoying and lame,” way. She has some catchy songs. She’s a very skilled businesswoman. She remains apolitical enough, quiet enough, behaved enough, white enough and bland enough to appeal to a very wide demographic. She’s safe. She’s…

  • Betty “Who?”: Lesbian and gay solidarity is back, baby!

    Betty “Who?”: Lesbian and gay solidarity is back, baby!

    As someone who has spent a lot of time and energy in feminist spaces, it never fails to amaze me when non-lesbian women try to draw a wedge between lesbians and gay men. But never being attracted to the reproductive sex you’re “supposed to be,” in a world where producing offspring is upheld as humanity’s…

  • The JoJo Siwa Saga: When lesbianism is denied a definition

    The JoJo Siwa Saga: When lesbianism is denied a definition

    I want to preface the recent news on JoJo Siwa by saying that if a woman genuinely thought she was a lesbian – because she’d never been attracted to a male before – only to come out as bisexual (or “queer” as JoJo did), once she discovers she actually is attracted to men, then whatever.…

  • Lesbian perspectives on “queer”

    Lesbian perspectives on “queer”

    Being a lesbian is the least weird thing about me. An integral part of overcoming internalised homophobia many moons ago was recognising that homosexuality exists in many mammal species and throughout human history. Perhaps that’s why I started the lesbian_herstory Instagram in the first place: as a place to remind myself and other lesbians that…

  • Should dangerously homophobic countries get to host global competitions?

    Should dangerously homophobic countries get to host global competitions?

    There is no sport more synonymous with freedom than surfing. You can fight me on this. Surfers harness the waves despite the unknown deep below, tapping into the human urge to go “weeeeee!” while somehow controlling our mortal fears. Sometimes, I can’t leave my bedroom – usually after hearing of another woman murdered by a…

  • Off the Calendar: What does Trump’s billionaire boys’ club mean for lesbians?

    Off the Calendar: What does Trump’s billionaire boys’ club mean for lesbians?

    I’m the first to admit that I find months dedicated to the classes I belong to, such as Pride month, performative and kind of cringe. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against Pride gatherings or even the odd parade here or there, so long as capitalists do not sponsor them. They don’t really give a…